Also, you don't have to, nor should you, make any decisions right away. You've had a another major blow so take the time to let the shock wave diminish.
Do you journal at all? I'm not good at that, but I did it for a couple of months after my d-day. I wrote about how I felt and why. It helped me to work through things. Get your thoughts down on paper. You may not come up with any answers but you may be better prepared for them in your own mind at least.
