Kalni,
The convo with H was awesome. He said most of the things you wanted. It sounds like he has done a lot of soul searching.
I agree with many of the others - set your boundaries and do not settle. I am so happy for you that your H is finally seeing the light.


Me47
H46
S13
M16
Piecing since May/09

"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz