Good for you on moving back in. I too think they should be the ones to go if that is their choice. And I'm not even going to 2x4 you on the match.com thing. I too did that. I got several people asking for my pic, but I wasn't doing that! But, the meer act of "looking" just seemed to be a statement to myself that there is other life out there, and that made me feel a little more in control of my own destiny. I even have talked to/lightly flirted with a couple of attractive people I have met. Absolutely nothing serious, but that is something that I had never really done, given that I had been with my H since I was a teenager! It really helped my self esteem.
So, kudos to you, girl!!
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd