LIS, hi, just wanted to say the I agree with Puppy. Hold your ground and don't get pulled into those repeated R talks. I don't know why any Judge would order to have a father removed from a home if there is no proof of abuse. I think she needs to be careful about her "threats" since she is the one fooling around. Don't worry. Stay on the course.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!