Sounds like things are shifting. That's good. Just keep up the PMA and avoid R talks as much as possible. I know it is tempting and my example is not to be followed here but it really is for the best to just keep it light and work on building that foundation of friendship before trying to "figure things out" just yet. I know it's hard but you can do it. You are so strong and making great progress on a personal level. It's all going to be worth it in the end, with him or without him. Remember that always.
Good luck tonight! We're all here cheering for you!