I was thinking about this issue all morning and when I called hubby this morning to answer a question he had texted to me I told him that I would be willing to move if he had a good job, we could rent a house and not an apartment, and that we could commute to the church we both like which would be 45 minutes away. I said that if this was really about not wanting to leave his friends then I didn't want any part of it but if he honestly thought it would be better for us as a couple then I would trust his decision and do what he wants. He said ok and that he was going to look into things. So at least that is semi-resolved.
I'm going to continue my job hunt here for now since I need a new job now. I am going to call back about the job I interviewed for on Monday since it will have almost been a week and the lady gave me the business card so I could call. I might try tomorrow actually. If I get a job here first then we will have to talk about it again but for now I'm going to try and let him make plans for us and follow his lead. It will be better that way and there will be no resentment. It might even work out for the better because if he gets a nice job there then I would not have to work full time and could spend more time writing which would get me closer to my goals. That's what I need to do now. Write my goals out like I said a week ago. Oy. I feel ADHD sometimes!
Ok that was a lot of babbling. Moral of the story I am happy, he is happy, life is grand!
