I will have to read your thread, right now I am running around getting ready for a wedding! Just curious have you told anyone else? Her mother and I are close and chat. I have mentioned that I am sure she is having an affair, before I found the e-mail. The whole family knows that she was hanging out with the older guy and are disgusted My F in Law and B in Law wanted to go over to his house and have a word with him but I told them that it would push my W away. At the time it was only emotional and I sometimes wish they went over because it may have stopped the PA.
I feel frusterated like you and I can't stand thinking about her with him!!! I don't have any kids so I wonder if it is all worth it I still love her but I don't love who she has become! Knowing what I know now it is hard to be upbeat when I talk to her I just want to scream! How do you deal with it?
ME 44 W 32 M 5 T 6
no kids
June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
