It does sound to me like she is really trying to work things through though and that ia always good.
JAK
Jak. I'm glad you think she's working thru things. It's hard for me to tell sometimes.
She had an X-ray confirm a broken toe yesterday. The orthopedist told her it will be 2-8 weeks before she will dance again. He told her that she is not to dance or walk with any pain, or risk poor healing. She ran into a door about two weeks ago, trying to quiet a barking puppy.
She was ranting about a PB & J sandwich that wasn't supposed to have the J. During the rant, she mentioned that she won't tolerate being treated poorly by me, and won't tolerate low quality sex. She says that the ball is in my court.
All I can do is listen and hopefully get more clarity as to what she's talking about. With the sexual issue, I think she's referring to a lack of foreplay. With regards to communication, I'm not sure what she's talking about. I suppose the positive frame is that she's trying to communicate her concerns to me.
I will need to give her latitiude regarding her broken toe, as I know she's frustrated about not dancing.
I'm sorry that I'm not active lately on the Piecing forum. As connection improves, more time is devoted to the R, and less time is available for helping out others on the board.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
