Recently (a week ago) in my stitch I've had the heartache of finding out that there is already an OW. We've only been seperated since 6/03. Its been the roughest week of my life, however, I've decided to wipe the slate clean and start over.
In thinking about this and reading this thread it hit me. How many movies have we seen were the H and W get back together because the WAS saw all the changes for the better that the LBS made and wanted to be apart of that. Here I am wondering if there is anything I can do and if DBing really works and all I have to do is switch on the tv. They're DBing right infront of us.
I know thats Hollywood and fairytales...but don't they sometimes come true in real life? So these are my thoughts...how can I make that happen for me? Even if my H and I never get to reconcile at least I can say that cleaning out the cobwebs was worth it in the long run. I'll just be a better somebody for someone else.
I look forward to working out with you all in the 7 Aerboic Steps.
Here are my personal goals:
1. I will attend every class. (college classes) 2. I will walk at least 3 times weekly. 3. I will loose 40lbs by end of December 03. (already lost 20lbs) 4. I will enroll in Adult Oil/Acrylic Painting class. 5. I will set up a Personal Debt managment system. 6. Find my own place to live.
R goals:
1. H will contact me. 2. I will end conversation first. 3. I will not bring up OW nor be pulled into convo about OW. 4. I will be polite/friendly not short and hostile. 5. I will find something in every conversation to compliment H on.
