quote: ____________________________________________________________What things might he be able to do to regain your trust? ____________________________________________________________ Actually he has regained some of my trust. H has tried and I didn't appreciate him enough. Therefore he thinks all he has done has been in vain. It is more an issue of my insecurity than him trying. quote: ____________________________________________________________ What could he do that would make you more confident that he really is trying to work on your relationship now? ____________________________________________________________ At this point he has walked away...again...and is back to the "I want to go my own way" speech. I am back at square one and very afraid I blew the chance he gave me to work on it. I am starting from scratch now. ~~~Debi