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If there was no past history to taint your views of the possibilities of things that could happen in the future, what might things look like?
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This is the main question I seem to keep coming back to. The past is my problem i.e....I can't seem to get over the mistakes H made that broke my trust. I thought I had forgiven but can't seem to forget and he's right...I crucify him over it.
H came back to work on our M but I obviously keep returning to the past and how he was. He says I'll never change because I refuse to see that he's changed. Maybe he's right, but I think I can change with a C help.
In a nutshell...if there was no past history I wouldn't be here and my M would probably be flourishing because H is my best friend and before his "betrayal" of my trust, we had no major problems.
~~~Debi
