I like what has been written so far...food for thought, for many. I agree with BND that we all contributed to the demise of our marriages in one way or another !
I too have changed many things and like the changes I have made for myself !
I had the GREATEST time today for Halloween ! We stopped by several people who invited us in for wine and drinks even ! It was so great to do this as a family ! I looked great as a witch !
The kids looked fabulous all dressed up !!! And H...well, he didn't dress up and I told him he was a party pooper !
I was in a great mood, made yummy foods, and was very happy allround. I don't seem to let H or his life affect me as much whenever he is around me. He's even starting to discuss the ow with me at times...I just casually listen and don't comment much. It's weird, but I feel myself letting go even more than I have, I am starting to feel what real detachment is. Good ! Finally !
So after spending a little over 3,5 hours here with us, and having had some wine and great conversation at the neighbours, H left to go home and the kids and Icleared up and went to bed !
Now I sit here thinking back at a wonderful Halloween night.
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Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
