Ok - Got through the night without chasing him down.

To give you an indication of how close we were ( when i was not having an A ) my daughters were shocked speechless that he had gone out to a dinner without me. They looked a little scared, but for their sakes I just made light of it and went and typed the above post.

I just donrt have the heart to get out. It is an effort. I know what you are saying ( have been saying )and i do get out but I miss him soooooooo much and want to do things with him. Pathetic I know.

So it is saturday morning now. I will not ring him at all and IF he rings me then I wont mention the dinner at all. I am glad that I did not last night. i am such a knee jerk person. I also noticed on visa bill that he purchased 2 airline tickets recently. Not sure where he is going , or even if he has time to go anywhere. I will not ask, I will snoop around for that.

I have another challenge coming up and would appreciate any tips. On Friday we as a family are travelling 7 hours by car to attend family wedding. We wil spend Friday night at our holiday home. The next 2 nights in a motel / hotel. I know he has booked a family room.

So sleeping arrangements? Do i share bed ?
I will behave as if he is not my H , and go talk to strangers etc. but what does that really look like? I dont want to be seen to be passive aggressive. I also want to be norml and not be so jolly that it false, so what is the balance - not sure anyone can help with that question.

Anyone got any strategies or thoughts that will make this trip a successful one for me?

Yes i have got the books but I will admit to going straight to the passages i think are relative to my situation. So is his behaviour really classic ?

I reaally want my husband back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

As for C , I got yellow pages out but became so busy in shop that even with 2 extra staff I could not take a breather. Excuse I know, but after last night ,I wished I had. So I have some numbers written down and will try this morning in case they are in office.

Thanks

I am going to hope that he missed having me as company at a dinner. He would not of know many, if any people. Not even sure why he was going. Except he is out GAL.