Well, the second OW put the final nail in the coffin for me. I was completely blindsided too because he was so remoresful about the first one....which leads me to believe that he just has a problem. Not dealing with it just insures it will be present in every R he has. If you ever decide to give xh another chance I would say be clear on boundaries and what you need.
Yes, new friends are always good. It is so nice just to have someone to go to dinner with. I think it has definitely helped your PMA.
Happy Halloween and TGIF!!!!! Have a good weekend.