Step Number 1 - Start with a Beginner's Mind

[Jamesjohn]

However, he really likes it when I look at him with eyes shining happily, hanging on every word.

Cool!! You found something that works!!

Who knows, maybe doing enough of this might lead into him talking YOUR love language!!

"Let's get physical, physical. I wanna get physical, physical. Let me hear your body talk...."

(I've always loved Olivia Newton John, especially at the end of "Grease" when she comes out dressed in her leather's! I think that I'm the only person in the western hemisphere with a vinyl album of hers! Sorry, I digress!)

Anyway, great observation, my dear!!