Hey Kalni..have you seen actions from him?? Or just words?? I've followed a bit but not enough to know. Words mean nothing. Actions mean everything. Actions show changes happening. Dams can change but I think it should take significant actions on his part...ie..the work, it's a problem for you, the R, the M...I would think that's his first step..
I think Bill's post above speaks volumes..
nows the time for your STBXH to put up or shut up..IMO..show you, not just talk it..walk it
