Like I said, I am packing up the remainder of her clothes and putting them upstairs. I have taken down the pictures of her and of us. I changed my bed coverings and found that she had taken a few comforters and sheets as well. I will feel better after the room is emptied of her stuff. I am kind of wodering what her response will be after I pack her stuff up. I have several projects to do to keep busy this weekend. Getting shaky and I don't know why. My BIL who lives with me isn't paying the rent he should and its screwing up my bills. I am going to take action next week and ask him to find someplace else to stay. I can't support him right now. One of my D's thinks he may be giving my W some money because she is strapped. She pays nothing to the house, my D's support or anything. If I find out he is, he will be out quick.

I think I have the shakes becasue this is the final end of the rope. I have cut out her "exiastence" in the house now. No pictures or clothes in my room. She will be able tostore them there, but I am not going tohave her coming into my house to get changed and pick and choose clothes like she lives there. No more cake eating at my emotional expense. you have a great weekend. AmyC and Sandi if you two are out there I would love to hear from you, kinda give me an impression of what I have been doing and your thoughts. Karlah, you too....