I agree Kris...our husband (err..exhubands now) were/are a lot alike! Your situation actually has helped me to keep in mind that if I hadn't made the move and divorced when I did, there is a high likelyhood that there would have been OW #2 with mine as well.

I do like the guy I knew from high school. We seem to have a lot in common and I always have such a fun time when we hang out together. Maybe I am just not feeling a romantic click with him. Maybe he isn't feeling that with me either. But Kris is right....regardless I have made a new friend. And going out to dinner and hanging out with him now and then has been a good way to GAL and good for my PMA. Since I do not have any expectations for love with him, things are good. I am not ready to love right now anyhow...so this could actually be for the best.

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08