Do you think I shouldn't go trick or treating with the whole family?
oh no..go brother..I never meant that at all.. If I had I would have said "don't go"
Go Go GO..for the kids man..
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M, do you think that I'm not detached enough?
never said that either..
I guess I go back to my sitch..When I first started posting here in early 08 I used the word "expect" in some form all the time. I had a "mentor" here point that out to me. It's a hard word not to use. I think we all have expectations of our spouses/former spouses but those expectations never serve us well.
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But as far as detachment, I don't care if she comes or goes. I don't ask her what she's doing, nor do I want to know. I'm dark with her when we're not together unless it's kid/financial related. Plus, I find that I'm happier when she's not around. In your opinion, is there something else about detachment I'm not getting?
nope..if you are where you are..then you sound pretty dammmnn detached.
I guess I asked about detachment due to the use of the word "expect".
she will do what she will do. It will be what it will be. Hell it is what it is..
