Tipper, be patient, sweetie. Know what YOU want and allow God to lead you.

Just wanted to stop in and tell everyone, that as much as I complain, it is possible to bust a divorce. My H was deadset on D and we are actually truly wonderful now.

Just in the last week or so, I feel so much love flowing from H. It's so comforting! I am just making sure I reciprocate no matter how tired or stressed I may be.

S3 decided to get up at 3:30 a.m. the other day so that's how I started my week \:\) The joys of parenting. That's where a lot of our stress comes from. We have HUGE issues w/ the 2 youngest (4 & almost 3) going to bed at night (sound familiar BBJ?) Anyway, we've learned to work through it together and it just seems to flow.

It can happen, guys & gals. Just wanted to give everyone some positive news -- there is hope!

Last edited by RedHeadWife; 10/31/08 06:09 PM.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10