HTTE,

Shoot, just when I think that I have read or experienced it all... baam. That is really strange.

I agree with your stand on the condo. Make sure she is aware that this is what she wants (her action), and this is one of the consequences. If the condo is a boundary, MUST STICK TO IT - and YOU DID. You take the kids when you can.

We pleasers are tough nuts to crack sometimes!!!

Take care.

LIS

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No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.