M, do you think that I'm not detached enough? Do you think I shouldn't go trick or treating with the whole family?
I'm not really expecting anything to happen relationship wise, just more curious than anything. I'll take an opportunity for us to be as a family when I can get it. I think it's good for her to experience it.
But as far as detachment, I don't care if she comes or goes. I don't ask her what she's doing, nor do I want to know. I'm dark with her when we're not together unless it's kid/financial related. Plus, I find that I'm happier when she's not around. In your opinion, is there something else about detachment I'm not getting?
