Quote: "In healthy relationships, major disagreements get resolved over time."
The main issue (besides conflict avoidance and possible MLC...) that casued our separation and led us on the road to a possible D is the question of starting a family.
I was not ready and my H could not seem to understand/accept that. I was also stubborn about it and avoided talking about it (this would be a conflict...), which didn't help.
No matter what happens in R talks now that we are apart, this issue continues to come up. I am working through this issue with my C but H can't see that. How can you consider a family when your M is on the rocks?
I am so tired of this never ending argument and the way that it always turns out the SAME WAY!! How do I stop it?
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)
