I have to say it must be quite different living over in Europe because when we get away for a weekend, the closest thing is camping or some nice city (but is no Paris), lol!
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
I have to say it must be quite different living over in Europe because when we get away for a weekend, the closest thing is camping or some nice city (but is no Paris), lol!
Yep Europe does have a kind of 'je ne c'est quoi' !!
Have fun tomorrow celebrating Halloween !!!!
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
Just wondering where you are from... I try to keep up with you and read your posts...but I dont have too much time at work to go back when you first started posting ... just wondering??? have a great evening...
M-53 H-46 M-24+YRS BOMB-10/14/07 2-S 2-D Grandkids-7 Greatgrand kid-1 He needs space... Wants to start fresh new life W O/W Moved in his O/W Oct.08
Wow!!! Belgium.....another question... where did the name Cinderellaman originate.. did you read my recent update???my husband moved his O/W with him to Georgia....where we were going to move ...me and our daughter,sometimes I am in like shock...how quickly it all changed in my family... from a loving husband...father..granddad....to this person I have no idea who he is.....
I do know after I found this out I had an inner peace with me..and I actually keep hearing in my heart "MY PLAN IS IN MOTION" dont know if you believe in God but I do .....the peace is so real... I am no longer just thinking about him .... just doing lots of praying and thanking God for his grace..because one year ago I wanted to take my own life and my daughters.....I cant believe I was that low in my life ...
I wanted him to hurt as we were...but because I cried out to God....I am here today.....
I just dont know what to do about the holidays....I dont want to cause any problems for him and his homewrecker.I dont want to interfere with God's will.. I will have to pray about it.. to call him and wish him a happy holiday... my daughter says she never wants to talk to her father...there is nothin I can do about that... but he wont call her either....he says she will say hurtful things to him and he doesnt need that right now in his life.......
This is what i mean by him being so different....my old husbnad would of dies for our children.. but this one is not in his right mind.....
Have to get back to work will check back in in a while. Be Blessed In Jesus Name
M-53 H-46 M-24+YRS BOMB-10/14/07 2-S 2-D Grandkids-7 Greatgrand kid-1 He needs space... Wants to start fresh new life W O/W Moved in his O/W Oct.08
You plan the holidays the way you always have. Let your H be as he is not himself right now.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I know and I will...how this MLC changes them so much.....I would not want this for myself... I can imagine what he must be thinking and feeling....especially when it comes to his daughter...of course God knows what they are thinking... and you would be so proud of me since he moved her in..
I have had NO CONTACT with him since he did this.. and it is getting easier and easier.....still praying for God to do something and to keep me closer and learn more every day of him....it feels good to feel alive again...to see our daughter smile and laugh again....
What an awesome God we have so full of mercy and so quick to show us mercy....it has been 3 weeks since this happened this is the longest I have ever gone without hearing his voice in over 25 yrs... feels really odd.. but I will continue to pray for us and for you MWG and everyone else in here....
You are so blessed that you can actually see your husband during the week.. i have not laid on eyes on my husband for over 9months now..... God I miss holding him.. laughing with him...lying down together at night and just talking about our day...I see lots of couples everyday ... and I wonder if they ever say to each other how much they love each other.... or just a kiss... or a glance from them.....
Lots of people take these little things for granted...i wish we could tell them to please pay attention to your marriage because it could be taken from you literally overnite..
Be Blessed In Jesus
M-53 H-46 M-24+YRS BOMB-10/14/07 2-S 2-D Grandkids-7 Greatgrand kid-1 He needs space... Wants to start fresh new life W O/W Moved in his O/W Oct.08
