Your right this isn't easy. Even if your h doesn't make it home by the end of the year, you are on the right track. Just keep doing what is working.

Hugs!

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"