"In healthy relationships, major disagreements get resolved over time."
I have to ponder this one.
For my Monkey and I, a major disagreement that we had was him spending enough time with me.
I think that's been resolved through our separation because I've changed my definition of what is 'enough'.
Also, I'd feel a martyr and a victim because I was working on our relationship and he wasn't. I addressed this recently on my thread and realized that he is contributing, in his own way at his own pace.
I'd say that separation has been good for me because it's given me the chance to gain some perspective on our relationship and our issues.
