Aiming for a new me.....14?

[glamgirl]

These messages must be coming to your e-mail? Wow, if you look deep people that are vindictive are not happy with their own life and have to put others down to make themselves feel better.

Once you recognize that behavior then you can deal with it and not accept it as truth.

Sorry you are having to go through this as well.

Have a Happy Halloween regardless of your circumstances!

[Maya44]

Thanks GG, its hard to believe since they came off so happy and great with life, but I guess it could be truth.

The messages came via text msg, so I just deleted them without reading them once I was told to F off. She'll probably read this thread and say I'm playing some "desperate act" since that's why she stopped talking to me. But I'm not saying anything that isn't true.

[WCW]

Just a quick note to all those that bad mouthed me here behind my back to BND. And she said it was everyone that warned her, so I'm posting to everyone.

I am a good person and don't deserve to be talked about. If you had something to say to me, you could've said it. This isn't high school, but sure the F seems like it. We are supposed to be supporting eachother during our seperations...NOT [censored] ting on eachother like we're not all human beings going thru the same garbage with our spouses. If you want to be hateful, be hateful with yourselves somewhere else.

WTH?
I just keep waiting for that special picture. tap tap tap

[glamgirl]

I find people in general very interesting. What comes off on the exterior shell might not be what is really going on with their inner sole.

That would be true for myself. I really let very few into my real life. Mostly because I am private, don't want to be judged, don't like confiding about my personal life. I think most would think my life is happy and all good, but if they really knew that my h was gone and that I was struggling I think that would come as a suprise.

I remember this woman in our neighborhood who was a SAHM with 2 little girls, beautiful home, nice looking h with a real good job you would think her life was grand. Well later on they D.

I was really shocked. It seemed like she had everything. Sometimes you just don't know what is under the surface.

[Maya44]

I KNOW! I'm SOOOOO terrible about it! I HAVE TO DO IT! I want to put them on FB too! Once I figure this camera out then I will for sure get to the library and do it! I PROMISE! H is the techy, so this is something new for me to do.

[shewholurks]

FG,

What kind of camera do you have? I am sure that someone can talk {post} you through getting the photos off the camera and onto a computer.

This looks like a good point to start a new thread.{you don't need to wait for a lock. Just hit notify and ask the mods to lock this one for you.} Take from these past few days what benefits you and leave the rest behind. Life is too short to allow mean-spirited people to drag you down.

Happy Halloween!

~ swl

[MissH]

FG,

May I make a suggestion?

Obviously most of us can see that your fight is between you and another poster. If this fight happened off the boards maybe it would be a good idea to leave it there. It isn't fair to some of us that are friends with both of you to feel like we have to choose sides.

Just leave it behind and start anew, ok?

[Maya44]

MrsH, I'm not putting anyone in the place of choosing sides. I'm just saying that if I'm being bad-mouthed as was told to me then tell me what you think instead of telling her.
I'm done with this though. As soon as I get to my camera today and answer SWL's question on what kind it is, then I'll be done and moving on.

[kissak]

Hey Dar....just checking in on you. Hope all is ok. I know its easy to say that we shouldnt worry about what "so called" friends say or do behind our backs, but it does hurt. So, I hope you are doing ok. Take care.

[Maya44]

Hi Kissak, I'm ok. I'm doing pretty good really. I haven't talked much to H since Halloween other than some stupid drama on his part on Saturday and that's it. No calls from me for sure from now on! I emailed him today to cancel D's visit since she's not feeling well and called him out on some things that were building up inside of me, so I'm all good. I'm pretty sure I'm on the road to divorce and I'm fine with that.