One thing to be very aware of as you are DB'ing is the power of the "self-fulfilling prophecy". It's easy to be so certain that things are going to follow a pre-determined path, that we actually help things along the way.
We may "know" that things are eventually going to turn out bad, so we ignore the good signs, and are constantly on the alert waiting for the other shoe to drop. We focus on the negatives.
On the other hand, we could start expecting good things to happen, and may not be quite so aware of any little setbacks that may occur. We can focus on the positives, and see things going along a better path.
JJ
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