Wow, what a great, honest look at your differences! Neither one right, neither one wrong, just "different", right?!
As I was reading through your post, I was thinking that you've got a lot of great material here to work with when you're looking at 180's! Wouldn't it really blow him away if YOU were to display a trait or two of his that you described?! Even for just a time or two!
It would be interesting to see what kind of change THAT would bring about!!
Which leads me to say.....
As you're working through Step 1 here, take note of some of the new and interesting ideas you're discovering about your relationship, to help you work through the next steps. It will really help to use your new found "beginner's mind" to plot the rest of your course!
There's lots of great stuff here from everybody!!!!
JJ
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