We have been separated since April and this is the first time. This is the only A that she has had. She has been back and forth a couple times since all this started. I am not sure if she is serious this times, a few things are different that are more promising.
Skeptical, highly. If she turns the other way, right now I would still D her without a problem. She has a lot to prove before a D would be a catastrophic event for me again. See how it goes.
H4H,
I don't have feelings either way right now. If it works out great, if not there is always someone else. Although my preference is still my W. Always one day at a time.
LIS,
I have found my strength within myself. No one will every take it from me again.
Praying for us all that we find what we are looking for. Maybe not what we want right now, but it all works out the way it should. Just keep the faith.
Hey there neighbor!! checking on you! hang in there, you are doing amazing right now!
here's that recipe!
2 2/3 C SELF RISING FLOUR (has to be this kind) 5 TBLS sugar 1 can ROOM TEMPERATURE OR WARM BEER
flour and sugar in a bowl, add beer, stir let sit a couple minutes, put in greased bread pan or muffin pans, bake at 350 til done! I pull mine out a few minutes early, rub butter on top and put back in for a few more minutes!
the beer cooks out, but man its GOOD!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Still alive and kicking. I have been working to much and will post my sitch in a couple days, I got D11 tomorrow night. I have been trying to catch up with everyone else. Things here have slowed down some, but still much better then a few weeks ago.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
You need to quit disappearing for days at a time!! How is the weather up North? lol Kind of chilly down here but it is supposed to be nice on Halloween. Drop a line when you can.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
hey friend, thanks for the info on my thread! I should have thought to ask you what to do about it sooner lol!! Kat and I really want to know how you are doing!! happy halloween!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Happy Halloween to all. I have been so busy lately and have not had time to post. This weekend looks busy also. I am doing pretty good, just trying not to let the anger and resentment get the best of me. Still down to the big question, do I really want W back after all this. Not sure anymore, see what happens by January.
BG,
Happy Halloween to you also, even though it is almost over. Beautiful day up here, to bad I was to busy to enjoy it. I would have rather spent the day working on my car, but such is life.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
You are in a way better place than I. But I can relate to the feeling od "do I want her back anyway?". Had that very thought last night after convo with W.
You are giving to Jan. I will have to wait longer I think.
Take care bud. You will perservere!
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
