Wow not include your h for the holidays then we must not be loving unconditionally. Now the last 2 years my h has chose to not be with us. I did call him on Christmas Day and Eve and wished him well and said he was welcome to join us. I also let him know I was thinking about him and loved him.
I wouldn't want to be alone on Christmas nor to have anyone not reach out to me. I just try to love regardless of how the other responds.
Have a great day MWG!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"