Originally Posted By: carpenter54
you sure we don't have the same wife?? Your post is like a mirror

Controlling to them= responsible in reality

I have gotten the kids are pawns speech

I have gotten the kids are miserable/to hard on them speech

You are doing well Obi Wan........


54, thanks. I wish I was as sure as many here that i am "doing well". Not so sure. I feel strong during the conv but then always seem to second guess myself.


Originally Posted By: marriedCrazy
You are doing well by standing your ground on the bed and the house. You also took every chance that you could to make sure that you reinforced that it is SHE that wants out. Not you!


MC, I did make the point that this was her decision as much as I could. She actually did agree and say she owned this, right before wondering why I haven't suggested that she can use the bedroom half time. BTW, she did sleep with D11 last night...


Originally Posted By: whatdidido
The OM is feeding her lines. You did well. REmember, this is NOT your wife....she's not thinking clearly.


((((wdid))))
I certainly want to believe that she is not thinking clearly, but sometimes I wonder. You are right, this is NOT my wife, nor is it the K's mother... :sad:


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