Why don't you be honest here Oz? Tell everyone what you told me the other day on the phone. How no one here will have restoration in their marriages and they're being naive. Your plans worked for you and that's why you gave me the advice you did. When I was down the other night, I asked you if you thought H and I should divorce. I asked this because you called him a liar and cheat and how naive I am. Then you cut off our friendship because I "crossed a boundary". You don't like being asked questions, but you don't want to be honest with people here?? What gives?