Thanks Sep,

The final person I was waiting to hear from has now said no...

I really feel like I'm swimming upstream here with trying to keep myself busy...

As I said though, I will play it by ear...

UPDATE

As I was typing that, who should call but H...

He called from the taxi, ostensibly to ask about the boiler. Talked to him about this, listened to him complain about his flights, and mentioned that I left Halloween candy for him to give out. His response--"Oh that's tonight? I have an assignment due, what time are you going to be home so you can deal with it?"

So I said I had been planning to go to drinks and dinner, but it looked like it got canceled so would be home a bit earlier.

Feeling fairly confused now. it's clear that H does want me there, but "to deal with" the trick-or-treaters. Is this actually a sign that he wants me around or not?

So, I will go home at the normal-ish after work time since I said I would...I do think it's odd that he called me from the cab. Even pre-bomb he wouldn't have done this, would have just texted to say he landed or something. Weird stuff going on...

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!