Trying2Live-Post #3

[faithrunner]

I was just going to say that! I think he's giving you clues of what he is looking for, and I disagree with your assessment of yourself. You were an individual and a leader in your own activities today and he didn't know what to do with you. That bit about "I'm glad you're doing things and I'm doing things" is no more than him trying to convince himself that you moving on is ok with him! You remained a mystery, GAL, showed interest for his show, all those things. I think him saying you don't have to make dinner anymore, etc is a small test. I would encourage you to BE CONSISTENT and continue to do those things. Don't pursue, that will make him uncomfortable. But if you can make dinner while seeming lovingly detached to his reaction, that would be great for him to see and great healing for you. This is just the beginning of your 180. Make it stick.

Also, please, please, please lets make a pact together - NO SNOOPING. We are the only ones that hurt, and it slowly kills your feelings for H. It it really hard, I know, but we have to commit to this. That way, we are totally focusing on ourselves, our changes, our GAL and that is what enables H to see you in your best light.

As for the women responding to the ads, dysfunctional that's all you can say. Theirs is a relationship sowed in dirty soil. It will never grow. Don't focus on that if you can. I am proud of you:)