D12 spent the last 2 nights at H's place, last night at home. When I saw her after school yesterday, her hair (hip length and very thick) was basically in dreadlocks. It took over an hour to brush out. She hates to brush her hair and isn't going to take care of it without a lot of "encouragement." Which she apparently didn't receive. I look forward (I think) to the day when the adolescent grooming fixation kicks in. This just goes on the list of reasons why 50-50 custody won't work.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012