My 29 year old wife going through MLC, this sucks

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Trapt,

Thanks for the inspirational good morning. Happy Holloween. Here is my update. Last night when I got home I did a 180 and told her that I was taking the kids out while she stayed home. She was fine with it and was able to take a bath and do housework, but normally I would invite her along.

I had a blast too, I took the kids to the driving range. they both, even the two year old love to put the ball on the tee and try to hit it. They went through a large bucket in no time. Then we got ice cream.

When I got home we put the kids to bed and then for the THIRD night in a row she didn't attempt to get out of the house and away from me. So we watched a little TV and said our goodnights. Then this morning I pulled another 180 by taking the kids for an early morning walk to Dunkin Donuts. We were gone by 7:00 and when the W got up she called wondering where we were. It didn't bother her neccessarily but I am trying to show her that I can handle kids on my own to. She seems to have forgetten that when our D was six weeks old and the W worked nights and weekends how I was dad home alone alot.

Anyways, I feel real strong right now and am really getting better at detaching. I already informed the W that I have plans for saturday night, so she didn't make her own.

I hope you have a fantastic day everyone and keep up the good work. Drop a line anytime.

B