I figure there's nothing to lose by being positive. I mean we are all disappointed anyway, so why dwell on this more than we need to...Have you ever read the Secret?
Just missed your response when I was posting to Sep. I did leave the note saying I would be out for dinner and drinks, but didn't give an expected time home.
I will def plan to stay at work a couple of hours late if nothing materializes on IM or with any of my friends. We have drinks here at the office every Friday evening in any case, so if I can find someone to pop down and have one with me, I can avoid going to a bar on my own, but can still have a drink before heading home...
I am really trying to focus on my own positives at the moment. I just need to come from a position of strength, which I hadn't been doing lately (other than when in Galway when we seemed like equals again...).
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!