I wouldnt sweat it too much... one night does not an R make and all that! Did you leave the note saying you would be out?

If nothing much materialises on IM, seeing as you said you'd be out, then stay at work a bit late.. go to a bar on your own at least and order something that will linger on your breath, so he knows you are not fibbing.. then head home kind of earlier than intended and make out like your friends at work are a bunch of lily livers and went home early. So at least you wont have totally renegaded on what you said and he will have that bit of space to relax.

Oh and thanks for being positive on my thread, I was trying to be pragmatic (he is with her now) and not get any hopes up and whilst you didnt get any 2x4's I was pleased to see a different perspective. And you could be right, because.. he emailed me and promised to call again! He heheheheee...

Al x


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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