chicki's 7th thread -latest drama

[Livin4ME]

No worries Chicki, we're all here for support and if I'm able to give some, that's great. :-)
He started seeing her the weekend after he left in mid Aug 2007. They've been together off and on. So just over a year.
I think it does get old. Not on his part. But on her part. I believe this only because I used to do the same. I didn't have as much money to spend on him, but I still had some. And I bought him cologne, clothes, we would go out all the time, etc. Then the kids came. I had to stop spending so much on him and start paying for diapers and such. And it did get old with me. I love taking care of people, I'm a Cancer, it's what I do. But if you're constantly giving out of your love bank and it's never getting any deposits...it runs out.
STBX definitely loves being taken care of. If he could sit around all day and night, playing PS3, sitting on the comp, and texting on his phone, drinking coke and eating junk food, he would. And if that meant, someone else taking care of his kids for him, the house, the bills, everything, he would be ok with that.
I see their R heading in the same direction our's did. According to them both, she's a Cancer as well and me and her are long lost sisters or something. She's even tried being my BFF!!! (Little girl language of Best Friends Forever!!) Yeah, no thanks! He's been cheating on her the whole time they've been together. Not just with me, but with others. I know this for a fact. And he left her a few times to stay with friends because of their issues, not including the times he came back to my house. They fight ALL the time, she has gotten physical with him, her X ran over his motorcycle the first night they met....so much drama...the R is doomed.
That's one of the reasons I say I'm so much better without him. He has made me an option, so why should I make him a priority.