Write yourself a pro's and con's list of what you would gain or lose depending on whether you stay together or not. Do it for you - no need to share. It might just help focus you a bit more.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength