I kind of feel foolish. I have never even thought of separate accounts. All of our money is pooled together. (Except for my firewood money) Never really bothered me because w used to make twice what I made. But 3 years ago with her job loss...... I kind of feel like if you start out in a marriage "separating stuff" then you are already saying mine is mind... I have felt that what is mine or hers is "ours".
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
