It's worth trying, and she may even agree with you on this, deep inside of her. However, if you're not getting a good response from her, it might benefit you to place your efforts in another direction, at least for awhile.
She may surprise you, and come around on this at a later time, but it doesn't seem like that's going to happen right now.
JJ
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