You may be completely right about the scriptures....but if YOU are the one showing her....you have a very high chance of pushing her away from scripture and from YOU.
Showing her these things clearly gives the message to her that she is wrong. And it alleviates you from listening to her feelings and what's going on inside her heart.
I'm not saying you're doing that....just that that is the message she is most likely to receive when you're doing that.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001