Confused I really appreciate all of your help in this!
How long has your H been seeing OW?
My X has serious issues stemming frm his childhood like his father was & still is an alcholic and he was mentally and physically abusive to X.
X needs to get counseling before he can make any of his R work, but he first has to admit there is a promblem which he doesnt see any.
X OW is also younger then us. X is 38 and OW is 30. Before I found out about her they would go on excotic trips like to the carrabean islands adn X would say it wsa his business trips. She pays for it all. She also buys him clothes. The only thing he pays for are the groceries when he has the girls on his weekends.
I wonder does that really get old? Could it be considered a love language for them- Acts of service?
Some men just want to be taken care of in that perspective. X had no promblem when I was the only one working. He seemed very content to be the stay at home dad. Some men would feel 'inferior' since not being able to be the bread winner and all.
Gosh I would love to have my own sugar daddy about now too!:)
