Well done.. I think you made the right decision, especially if he was a bit rude and sarcastic on the phone earlier. Also, not wearing the leopard outfit is perhaps better, as that is less pressure. Before me and my ex split and I was trying to attact attention, I bought new underwear and casually paraded in it, and I caught him frowning and he seemed almost annoyed (whereas in the past he would have been really pleased!) so, I think sometimes it can backfire, that stuff.

What time are you planning to be back home and what time is he going to be back at the house?

Ali x


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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