Wait. If the time is not right, the way is not clear,the answer or decision not consistent, wait. Close your eyes sit for a moment in silence and ask for help & guidance.
It will come at the exact time you need it. It did for me.
Today, strive to let go of the wants and needs that bring about frustration. God will fill the desires of the heart in his time and his way.
Accept where you are is the ideal place to be. Many are in limbo. It is not without a purpose. It IS moving toward something better.
Trust that you shall receive everything needed to get through today. Trust that the same shall happen again tomorrow.
Just remember, if she starts to pull away , it is not necessarily a bad thing. She is thinking.
LET HER.
And you are right, the timing is not up to you. It is up to a higher power, so if it does not feel right don't do it, or do it. You will know.
(((Trapt)))
BTW, they are one of my favorite bands...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Stay safe, Have fun with the kiddies. Take lots of pics. Put on your mask tonight and be a kid for a while.
One last thing, stay out of their candy man! Go buy your own.
"oh Johnny get eat all of this, I'll have one."+ another + another = 30. If your guilty of this and your stomach is aching. Don't say I didn't warn you. I will be laughing at you.
Great job T. Ignoring and and acting as if was perfect. You are so getting there. Keep it up. Have fun trick or treating with the kids. Mine are a fairy princess and a lion. The weather is even going to be mild. In western NY you never know what Halloween weather you will get.
Stay Strong
B
Married 10/12/2002 Me 35 Ring On Her 29 Ring Off D 4 S 2 Don't know if I am in love with you 10/7/08 Kinda Separated 10/7/08 EA/OM 6/6/08
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LMAO! That's the spirit man, never lose the sense of humor.
BTW, unless D12 hides her candy, she is screwed. I have an incurable sweet tooth....and she knows it!!!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Gotta have the humor. It makes you live longer. I have my heavy moments as well. Ya gotta get those out and deal and move forward. IMHO this may be my W biggest problem. She holds it in.
Yeah, Despite all the crisis BS I still love this life. It is absolutely amazing if you really stop, be still,and think about it. PSSSST I got a secret.....That post was a joke my kids candy doesn't stand a chance. My teeth are hurting just thinking about it!!
You will need the laughter. The roller coaster of an MLC is one of the most vicious you will ever encounter. Be prepared for an extremely bumpy ride. Your only vice is that you realize now it is an MLC. I didn't with my H, not until recently. Knowing does make handling it a little bit easier. I think the thing you really need to remember is that you have to take care of you. Read the Serenity Prayer, and say it a lot, because right now, the only thing you have the power to change is you. Your W is not thinking straight, but you cannot tell her that because she won't hear you. She may even accuse you of controlling her life. Beware the pitfalls.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
