Hope4us struggle, part 9 or 10 or whatever

[Hope4us]

Thanks WDID. I'm not sure about the spa thing. I did that for her for mothers day while she was in the middle of her affair (before I knew) and all she did was use it as a way to spend some time with OM. We were leaving to go to Florida the next day and she went to an hour and a half spa treatment and was gone for about 4 hours and when I asked her what took so long she said "In between the manicure and pedicure I had to sit there for over an hour". She admitted (after I confronted her about the affair 4 months later) to me that she'd been out in an hour and a half and spent the rest of the time with the boyfriend because we were leaving for a week and she "needed" to be with him before we left because it was going to be a week until she'd see him again.

So....I think she would probably love it, but I just don't think I can go there. I don't know. I'll think about it. I could pick one up when I'm getting my hair cut Saturday morning as the place I get it cut is in the area where all the Spa/Salon's are. Maybe I look a spa up and drag her along to get my hair cut, drop her off while I'm doing that and pick her up when I'm done. Problem with that is, we're supposed to go shopping for a new bed when I get done. There's this Amish furniture store having a sale Saturday only. We've bought some pieces of furniture there before and W really likes them so I just don't know if we can get all that done in one day. Maybe I'll just pick up a gift certificate for the spa treatment (a different one than I did before) and add that to the purse I already purchased. I'll think about it.

How did I know which purse to get? First, I'm pretty fashion savvy if I do say so myself. Second, I pay attention when she looks at stuff like that so I know what she likes. Third, I had narrowed down the choice to one of three and asked the young hottie behind the counter which she would pick and she told me that I had excellent taste as she'd like any of the three. The one I picked she then told me was her favorite Coach purse of all they have. Now she could have been blowing smoke, but why would she need to do that when I was obviously going to purchase one?

Ok, gotta run. Having some breakfast before heading underground again. Probably won't post again until Sunday morning. I'll let you all know how she is when I get home and when she gets her gifts.