Quote: I dont really think she is just trying to hurt me. she really believes this is what GOD wants her to do.
Do you know where & why she's got the idea that GOD wants her to leave the marriage?
I don't know what religion that you & your wife is but there is NOTHING in the Christian Bible which Dictates a Divorce or wife ending a marriage EXCEPT for 1 ground & that's if one of the parties has defiled the marriage bed...
Hebrews 13:1-5 in the New Testament states this...
If she is trying to justify this by using the bible then maybe you can speak to your clergyman about why she feels this way & can go to a Christian Counseling Service - Together - that your clergyman recommends
I'll check on you thread to read what you have posted about your sitch & see if I might be able to give you a few more scriptures if you would like for me to look them up for you.