Quote: How SURE are you about things that are going to happen?
Honestly im not sure at all right now it seems evenly positive and negative.one one hand she seems to be opening ,then as soon as i turn around "slam" shut out again
Quote: How much do you rely on the past, and the present, to predict the future? Especially about the "negative" things
Im trying not to rely on the past at all. if i did there would be no hope for marriage.I dont want the same old relationship. i think it can and will be better given a chance
Quote: How would you see the situation you're in from an outsider's point of view? What if you were a third-party looking at the events that are going on in your life? How might you see things differently?
I would probably see it the way my friends do. they are telling me to give up. that shes not worth it. i would also know that i caused most of this by my own actions no matter how minute they were. i would say you idiot how can you neglect her like this you are going to lose her if you dont change fast
Quote: If you were to read your story on the board like it was someone else's thread, what would you post to yourself? What advice would you give to you? How well would you take that advice?!
im not sure. i would probably say to hang in there dont give up and stay the heck away from her for a while
Quote: If there was no past history to taint your views of the possibilities of things that could happen in the future, what might things look like?
shed be home already and would have never left me. and i would be putting her on a pedestal everyday and catering to her every need and she would me as well.
Quote: If there was no past history to taint your views of the possibilities of things that could happen in the future, what might things look like?
I dont really think she is just trying to hurt me. she really believes this is what GOD wants her to do.
Quote: What areas of your relationship might it be helpful to "take off your blinders", and see things from a different perspective?
Unsure. any suggestions??
Quote: What does that dot that the teacher drew on the blackboard represent to you?!
IVE got to change things PERIOD........
Quote: What would your answer be to the "miracle question"? Your answer to how things COULD be, instead of the way that they are?
we would be the kind of couple who truly love each other with all our hearts . we would be constantly caring for and nurturing each other. when other people see us together they would long for what we have.
Quote: If you were to start things over from scratch, with a clean slate, what would your relationship be like? What would YOU be doing to help lead it into the right direction?
I would be praying with my family everyday, i would teach them about GOD and i would try my best to make GOD the center of our marriage. and she would always know that i love and care for her.